You can’t tiptoe your way to a business full of clients and buyers.
Heck, you can’t do a personal transformation to up-level yourself without being bold.
You have to be bold with your…
- Boundaries
- Message
- Truth
- Asks
- Invites
- Opinions
- Pricing
Bold doesn’t mean you have to be someone you’re not; it means honoring who you are more fully. It means going after what you really want with gusto.
Being shy or afraid to be bold means it’s gonna take you longer to arrive where you want.
People don’t hire you because you blend into the background or you’re soooooo nice. They hire you because you stand for something that shakes up their current reality.
If you’re still softening your message because you don’t want to offend someone…
… you’re muting the exact frequency that would magnetize your 5-Star Clients.
Your job isn’t to please everyone. You’re not trying to attract the world, just your 5-Stars.
You need to be clear and direct. Sometimes it’ll make people a little uncomfortable.
Let’s dig in a little deeper.
Boundaries are sexy.
Setting clear boundaries is about self-respect. It lets people know how to be with you.
It guides them to respect your time, energy, genius, and your clients’ results.
You can’t hold powerful space for others if you’re constantly leaking energy, trying to keep everyone happy, or slashing your prices.
You gotta say no faster. Cancel an appointment if you’re not feeling it. Raise your rates when you know it’s time.
When you hold yourself to a higher standard, you’ll attract higher-caliber clients. Your vibe is what attracts the vibe of who shows up in your world.
Vulnerability is a powerhouse!
You gotta ditch the polished, “I’ve got it all together” act. Nobody has it together, and people want to know you’re human. It puts them at ease.
Your audience connects to your humanity way more than your highlight reel.
Share the messy parts of you and the behind-the-scenes craziness. Share the moments when you doubted yourself, when you almost quit, and the lessons and experiences that made you who you are.
(Everyone loves a good comeback story!)
When you share from a grounded place (not a venting one), you give people permission to be real, too. That builds connection and trust.
Call your clients out… with love.
If you really care about their growth or getting the best results from your product… you can’t sugarcoat it.
Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is say, “Hey, you’re playing small.” Or “You need to spend more time on this.”
This doesn’t come off as harsh because you’re doing it to ensure they achieve their desired result.
And when it’s delivered with love, it lands. They FEEL your commitment to them.
Don’t rescue them from their discomfort. Hold the mirror up and hold space for them while they face their own BS. That’s how breakthroughs happen.
The world doesn’t need watered-down messages.
It needs bold ones. The kind that says what everyone else is afraid to say.
Trust your gut in marketing, offers, and content… even when it goes against the “rules.”
Lead with heart and fire. Heck, a bold one-liner on social media can change someone’s life!
Stand for something. Come from conviction. For the sake of something good… not just to stir the pot.
You might ruffle some feathers, but you’ll also attract the people who are ready for your style of awesome sauce.
Trust that your message, your boundaries, and your truth are sacred…
… and when you stand in them, prosperity ALWAYS follows.
So go be the bold one. Say the thing. Speak your truth. (It’s gonna be sooo freeing!)
Put yourself on the leading edge.