Has that been your experience, too? If not, read on, because I have the light switch primed and ready for you to turn ON to that thing you want in your business.
It’s not the “wanting” that gets me the prize. It’s the decision that I AM WINNING! I plan it, I taste it, and I get excited about it. I plan some more. I take necessary actions, too.
The one thing that never, ever, ever works is getting so worked up that I will freak out if I don’t get it, also known as the manifestation killer called “attachment.”
This is where focusing on the essence of what you want is oh-so important.
Ask yourself, “Why do I want ___________________? What will it ultimately give me? What is the bigger picture?”
Then get locked on to the essence. Be unattached to the how and you’re golden.
As an example, Eva Gregory was invited to attend a full-day mastermind at John Assaraf’s (bad a$$ multimillionaire from The Secret) home with several other powerful peeps in our industry.
I was so jealous. I begged her to tell me every little detail when she got home. Being my best gal pal, she did. Now I was salivating. I wanted that experience for myself and was deeply appreciative to live vicariously through her at that moment.
A year later, I had an opportunity to spend a full day masterminding with Robert G. Allen. I decided the moment I heard it was a possibility that I would INDEED go, even if the reality looked there was no way in hell that would happen.
I loved Robert for over a decade. His book, The One Minute Millionaire, is one of my most referred-to books. I love Multiple Streams of Income. I interviewed him on The Jeanna & Eva Show back in the day and loved his authenticity. I wanted him to give me personal feedback on how to grow my business BAD.
I moved my calendar around to make sure I was available the day the possible
mastermind was scheduled to happen. I told my team that I was going to win my prize. I knew that even if I didn’t get invited through normal channels, I was somehow going to be there.
Of course, I got what I wanted. And I got to play with some other very successful mentors that you probably know and love. If I hadn’t been invited, my life wouldn’t have ended. I wasn’t attached. I got the prize.
It’s a fine line to want something but not have fear if you don’t get it. I don’t always get what I want. But when I want it bad enough to take a standand shout, “THIS IS MINE!” life bends over backward to deliver it to me.
You have to be bold, dream it, announce it, go the distance, play to win, and above all know that you darn well can attract anything you want or need for your business. You have the ability to get the best mentors, team members, 5-Star Clients, and software systems available. Even if none of these things look available… they are.
You have to ask the questions that direct you down a path of winning. “What do I need to do right now to get this thing in motion? Who can help me? What do I need to believe about me? If I were playing to win, how would I play?”
It’s worth the personal growth you’ll get in the process. Plus, you’ll have really good stories to share when you’re holding the prize with a big, fat smile on your face.
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